I have been telling Baby that we are not going to have a birthday party this year.
I don't want the "party" idea to be ingrained in her and cause her to feel entitled to lavish birthday parties every year.
She voiced out a few times that she would like to have one but each time I said no.
And I started feeling a little bad.
Birthday parties cost a lot more these days than when it was during Coco's time. I recall her eighth birthday party at Wild Wild Wet was no more than $500 in all, with the 2-hour charge of about $250 for ten to fifteen children, with unlimited number of accompanying parents, if I remember correctly. Food and cake were self-prepared and ordered separately, respectively.
The last I checked, Wild Wild Wet has a basic package that cost $450 now, and only two accompanying adults are allowed in the premise. The other adults' entry is chargeable.
Really expensive.
A birthday party these days easily cost $1000, as I found out while preparing for Baby's last year.
I feel that it's too extravagant to spend such an obscene amount of dough on a child's birthday party.
The cheapest I had enquired was KidzAmaze but the slot was quickly snapped up.
I started drumming into Baby about our own private party, that we would celebrate it ourselves, until I saw on Facebook about a mother's preparation for her young son's party at school.
For all the Pokemon Go I have been playing, it is such a shame it didn't occur to me to give Baby a Pokemon-themed party!
And it occurred to me that I could just give her a quick celebration at her school canteen, during recess! She has expressed a few times that she wants to celebrate her birthday with her friends.
Stupid mummy!
So last night, I started sourcing for Pokeballs with Pikachu figurines.
My goodness! Tough. Tough. Tough.
Aplenty as they were on Carousell, these sellers kept replying that their Pokeballs were sold out!
I started to feel discouraged.
William said we could check out the Toy Outpost shop in the morning.
What gave me hope was the cake makers.
Super last minute as I was, two cake makers were willing to accommodate my one-day-in-advance order!
And those were popular cake makers - Cake Avenue and Sensational Cake.
I will always be grateful to them.
I chose Cake Avenue for the lower price and being a perfect alternative (will show the cake in the next post).
After the most important part of the celebration was settled, William and I continued to search for Pokeball sellers.
I sent messages to eleven Carousellers and finally narrowed down to two.
Eventually I bought them from whom I thought sounded helpful.
I was so disappointed with the figurines that come with the balls that I started sending enquiring messages to other Carousellers to check if it was possible to buy Gen 1 figurines from them.
However, they didn't seem helpful.
Then William said,"I found out that these are later Gen's mons! You could be chasing them next time."
I was skeptical and asked him to find out the names of these mon-figurines.
And he did.
Then he said something that made me turn around,"But the children will like the ball."
Ya! It's the ball that matters. The figurine was just a bonus. What was I thinking!
Baby doesn't know she has a cake or is celebrating her birthday during recess. I told her I will be bringing her goody bags to school so that she could give them out to her friends.
I hope she would be terrifically surprised!
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